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2021.10.17 11:28 Autokratin Can someone explain the details of the face-swopping thing in BW for me?

I mean, I get the mask, we see that more than once in the MCU. But what about the voice? How can a mask alter the voice? And how could Melina have explained all the details to Nat in the matter of minutes so that Nat is able to fly the jet to the Red Room?
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2021.10.17 11:28 PlentyNothings The least we could do was demonstrate how to score upto 17% off : Enter the discount code "KWIJEU4" or "TINAOCT" or "DRDRAY" or "YESSTYLE" and rewards code "JAZA4793"

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2021.10.17 11:28 Capable-Computer6268 GloryDoge - Private Sale live 🔥| BNB passive income from DAPPs revenue through staking | Easy 100x potential | Building the next-gen IDO Launchpad to help bring innovative ideas to life and protect early investors' funds | Contract Audited & Team Doxxed | Devs Daily AMA On TG | 0% Team Wallets

Website: https://glorydogecoin.com
🤔 What is the GloryDoge project?
Building a secure DeFi ecosystem to help bring innovative ideas to life and protect early investors' funds.
GloryPad, the first product, is the next-gen IDO Launchpad where developers, influencers, and investors gather to bring innovative ideas to life. Includes several new features like automated KYC and live activity feeds... (Under development)
GLORYD, the token, is the backbone of the project, and the golden bridge connecting the DAPPs to the inverstors. Backed by a solid economic model.
GloryDoge investors will earn 4% reflections from every buy and sell, plus 50% of the revenue from the DAPPs will be distributed to the ones who choose to stake their tokens.
Investors will also have access to premium features on the DAPPs by holding a certain amount of GLORYD.
🤔 Who are the team members?
A team of highly motivated minds, with years of solid knowledge and experience in Software Engineering, UI/UX Design, and Marketing.

🤔 Any doxxing plans?
Yes! The founder and co-founder are doxxed by DessertFinance. They handed over government IDs and passports for verification. They are located in Sweden.
🤔 What are the tokenomics of the GloryDoge token?
10% total tax on every transaction.
4% tax is distributed proportionally to all holders.
2% tax for marketing, contests, and celebratory distribution events. Used in full transparency to investors.
4% devs and team expenses. No one should work for free.
Normal transfers from a wallet to another wallet are 100% tax-free.
50% of the revenues from the DAPPs will be distributed proportionally to all holders in BNB through staking.
10% of the revenues from the DAPPs will be added as locked liquidity to PancakeSwap.
DEX and CEX wallets are excluded from tax/revenue distribution.
0 initial dev or team wallets.
🤔 What's next in the pipeline for now?
Conduct a successful private sale
Extensive marketing on multiple channels
Conduct a successful pre-sale
Official launch & Listing on PancakeSwap
Private sale contest prize distribution to winners
Listing on CoinMarketCap and CoinGecko
GloryPad security audit
Finalize and release GloryPad to the market
Extensive marketing and user base building
Hire more team members
Automate DAPPs revenu distribution to holders
Kick off the development of new features and DAPPs
🏷️ Contract Address: 0x91c9eaedfde82b95c7a75739575cd32fa9158bb0
🍰 Pancakeswap:https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0x91c9eaedfde82b95c7a75739575cd32fa9158bb0
🔹 Renounced Ownership: https://bscscan.com/token/0x91c9eaedfde82b95c7a75739575cd32fa9158bb0#readContract
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2021.10.17 11:28 CritsIRL 19 [M4M] Canada, ON - Here's hoping!

I'll keep this simple and straight to the point. I'm looking for a serious monogamous LDIRL feminine boyfriend around my age. (If it's an LDR please be within about 3-4 hours of EST/UTC-5) The only things I ask for is to have a very high libido (When we are both comfortable), able to communicate and enjoys wanting to be togethetalking all the time. I'm not interested in full or semi masculine guys.
Regarding me? I'm quite a relaxed and calm induvial. I can be intentionally cringe and stupid. I enjoy much more of a quiet laid-back sorta life. I enjoy cooking and baking lots. I play games, all on PC it being OSRS and DBD with some singe players that I plan on speed running eventually for world record. I try to better myself whether if be physically or mentally how ever I can.
If you have any question feel free to ask regardless of what it is!
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2021.10.17 11:28 Theo04t Diona - Filmarka

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2021.10.17 11:28 w86uj4ta Make Artemis and Zatanna (Snaibsel) canon. 💞🔥

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2021.10.17 11:28 supremesomething Lead shielding. I use it both outside and inside the cocoon. Sometimes I hear and feel physical hits to the pieces inside, as if they try to intimidate me to remove it.

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2021.10.17 11:28 Fluid_Department_120 Ethereum Creator Vitalik Buterin Slams Bitcoin ‘Maximalists’ For Supporting El Salvador’s Invasive Legislation

Recently, Vitalik Buterin, the author of the Ethereum white paper, criticized El Salvador’s President Nayib Bukele — for forcing businesses to accept Bitcoin as a form of native currency — as well as Bitcoin “maximalists” who support the President’s actions.
According to a report by The Block, the Russian-Canadian programmer took to Reddit on October 8 to share his views on President Nayib Bukele forcing businesses in El Salvador to accept Bitcoin as a form of payment. Buterin also called out “Bitcoin maximalists” for supporting the legislation that he found contrary to the ideals of freedom:
Buterin wrote in a Reddit post:
“Nothing unpopular about this opinion. Making it mandatory for businesses to accept a specific cryptocurrency is contrary to the ideals of freedom that are supposed to be so important to the crypto space.
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2021.10.17 11:28 isko990 I would like to see more mess and destruction in final version.

I hope they will add more destruction and mess in final. Especially on Orbital map when rocket explode: more destruction, much more smoke, and longer exists smoke on the map not just 10 seconds and that is it.
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2021.10.17 11:28 revrmt TEAM DRAGON doing the group hug LIMMP parody

I just love how slacks indirectly roast Limmp here haha no mercy.
Time stamp= 12:30
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svPVj_ucAWM
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2021.10.17 11:28 gigiomaga Laquelle on defonce?

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2021.10.17 11:28 The-Techie Deal: Walgreens Invests $5.2B In VillageMD, Now Majority Owner

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2021.10.17 11:28 TheAndredal Great joke

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2021.10.17 11:28 cschmol Broken engine holder - Fixable?

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2021.10.17 11:28 NoahCharlie Even the moon is loyal

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2021.10.17 11:28 EnvironmentalWeb7351 💀 Floki Frunkenstein 🧟 | Tomorrow | 1000 NFT Collection Ready For Minting | Relaunch! First token did 95x

Check out Floki Frunkenstein!
This token did a 95x on launch. From $900 Market Cap to $95,000 in a few hours. Due to the small liquidity, we weren’t able to sustain the growth, so we decided to relaunch! Already have a full marketing plan in place including constant CMS posts, shill bots, big influencer posts, CoinSniper / Coin Hunt and maybe even a tweet from Elon 😉. This is the real moonshot ! Don’t miss out!
NFT COLLECTION IS READY TO GO! MINTING WEBSITE IS UP AND RUNNING AND HAVE A FULL COLLECTION OF 1000 NFTS!
💀 What is Floki Frunkenstein? 🧟
The time has finally come. Elon meets Halloween with this spooky token! Floki Frunkenstein is a reward token. It rewards the 2nd hottest token out right now. Floki Frunk Puppy! 3% FFP rewards are given on every normal transaction, so you don’t miss out on the trend.
🧟 Why is it called Frunkenstein? 💀
Never been done before! When the price starts to drop, it’s gonna get SPOOKY! Frunkenstein mode activated. We combine lower buy taxes, higher sell taxes, and an automated buy back to make sure your investment COMES BACK FROM THE DEAD!
It’s a truly innovative project with NFT collection launching by the end of the month. The first edition is already complete before launch and many more will follow in the coming weeks!
Once Floki Frunkenstein is launched, our graphic designer will begin work on the rest of the layers for the NFT collection.
💀 TOKENOMICS 🧟
Total Supply 1,000,000,000
👻7% Tax
👻 1% Marketing
👻 1% Rewards
👻 3% Buyback
👻 1% Dev Wallet
👻 1% Liquidity
🧟 ALL NEW FRUNKENSTEIN MODE 💀
👻 ½ Off on Buy Tax
👻 2.5 x on Sell Tax
👻 5 Minutes after Frunkenstein wakes up… Buy Back Starts!!!
👻 1% of Buy Back Wallet every minute for 10 minutes!
👻 Tax multipliers last 1 hour after Frunkenstein wakes up
👻 1% Liquidity
🧟 SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS 💀
📖Contract: 0xf2a9c697f132beda55007c758b6d9d0fcafbf4da
🥞 Buy Now :https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0xf2a9c697f132beda55007c758b6d9d0fcafbf4da
🔹 Renounced Ownership: https://bscscan.com/token/0xf2a9c697f132beda55007c758b6d9d0fcafbf4da#readContract
🔐 Liquidity Lock 2 YEAR🔒
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2021.10.17 11:28 Candide1974 Nintendo screen time for autistic boy

Hi, I could use some advice regarding the playing behaviour of my autistic son (7 years high functioning).
He absolutely loves Lego, and has a huge Lego Jurassic World, Spiderman World, Ninjago world... he loves just looking at these world, adding things to them, but never plays with them. He says he doesn't know what to play. He never roleplays with toys.
On the other hand, he loves playing games on the Ninentendo (especially Lego games) and playing some of these games together is one of the best ways for me as a father to connect to him. We play around 90 minutes every day. He is very very very clumsy and other typical father-son activities like sports just don't work for us. Interestingly, same goes for readying or math, he can do most homework on a tablet but once he gets a real pencil in his hands he gets exhausted and frustrated very quickly, Almost like he needs a screen to concentrate.
Now, people around me (a friend who is a pedagogue , his teachers, grandparent who is a psychiatrist) are very much against us spending time with the Nintendo and want us to enforce "real playing" with his Legos as screen time is evil.
I have conflicting feelings about this. I understand that playing video games a lot is not the thing for kids and especially not for a special needs kid, but I also think that having something that gets him into a flow state and is easy to concentrate on helps him in a way and is also a great thing for us to connect.
What do you all think, and is there anyone with similar experiences?
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2021.10.17 11:28 GrandAccomplished69 Hey guys. anything interesting happening around here today, or would anyone like to hangout?

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2021.10.17 11:28 Coincado Please tell Gate.io to enable TTK withdrawals 🙏

Dear TTK Team, please tell Gate.io to enable withdrawals for TTK, I want to get them out of there! They are gate keeping it, only allowing deposits...
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2021.10.17 11:28 caitlinwiggers Sets for regifters

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2021.10.17 11:28 mercredii what is happening here?

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2021.10.17 11:28 Impressive_Habit5688 💀 Floki Frunkenstein 🧟 | Tomorrow | 1000 NFT Collection Ready For Minting | Relaunch! First token did 95x

Check out Floki Frunkenstein!
This token did a 95x on launch. From $900 Market Cap to $95,000 in a few hours. Due to the small liquidity, we weren’t able to sustain the growth, so we decided to relaunch! Already have a full marketing plan in place including constant CMS posts, shill bots, big influencer posts, CoinSniper / Coin Hunt and maybe even a tweet from Elon 😉. This is the real moonshot ! Don’t miss out!
NFT COLLECTION IS READY TO GO! MINTING WEBSITE IS UP AND RUNNING AND HAVE A FULL COLLECTION OF 1000 NFTS!
💀 What is Floki Frunkenstein? 🧟
The time has finally come. Elon meets Halloween with this spooky token! Floki Frunkenstein is a reward token. It rewards the 2nd hottest token out right now. Floki Frunk Puppy! 3% FFP rewards are given on every normal transaction, so you don’t miss out on the trend.
🧟 Why is it called Frunkenstein? 💀
Never been done before! When the price starts to drop, it’s gonna get SPOOKY! Frunkenstein mode activated. We combine lower buy taxes, higher sell taxes, and an automated buy back to make sure your investment COMES BACK FROM THE DEAD!
It’s a truly innovative project with NFT collection launching by the end of the month. The first edition is already complete before launch and many more will follow in the coming weeks!
Once Floki Frunkenstein is launched, our graphic designer will begin work on the rest of the layers for the NFT collection.
💀 TOKENOMICS 🧟
Total Supply 1,000,000,000
👻7% Tax
👻 1% Marketing
👻 1% Rewards
👻 3% Buyback
👻 1% Dev Wallet
👻 1% Liquidity
🧟 ALL NEW FRUNKENSTEIN MODE 💀
👻 ½ Off on Buy Tax
👻 2.5 x on Sell Tax
👻 5 Minutes after Frunkenstein wakes up… Buy Back Starts!!!
👻 1% of Buy Back Wallet every minute for 10 minutes!
👻 Tax multipliers last 1 hour after Frunkenstein wakes up
👻 1% Liquidity
🧟 SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS 💀
📖Contract: 0xf2a9c697f132beda55007c758b6d9d0fcafbf4da
🥞 Buy Now :https://pancakeswap.finance/swap?outputCurrency=0xf2a9c697f132beda55007c758b6d9d0fcafbf4da
🔹 Renounced Ownership: https://bscscan.com/token/0xf2a9c697f132beda55007c758b6d9d0fcafbf4da#readContract
🔐 Liquidity Lock 2 YEAR🔒
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2021.10.17 11:28 PotentialAd47 [PS4] H: Caps W: Magazines the man of the woods 6 and bobbles heads lucky .

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2021.10.17 11:28 Intrepid_Flatworm736 Trust issues and they’re now worse but I’m not sure what to do

This incident is one of the most complicated situations I’ve ever found myself in. Buckle up, this is gonna be a long, wild ride y’all are joining me on.
TLDR; my partner and I have been together since 2019, things have been great until I stumbled upon questionable apps (1st, 2 dating apps installed on a device during our time together, a Facebook account that was messaging tons of guys, Kik account but with no emails found in reference to its creation/he deleted his deleted emails wtf?). THEN I found his exes phone on his account, it’s been removed, all passwords have been changing and two factor added, but then I found my friends username in notes. Friend said they talked on tinder until my friend figured out who he was. Partner is not admitting this but I found the tinder deactivation emails from May 2020. Partner lied about who the iPhone belonged to (saying he never dated him but his Facebook proved otherwise). I love this man and dunno what to do and want advice for if I stay AND for if I leave. My trust issues gotta be resolved and I’m wanting to try not staying in a cycle of running away from issues.
My current partner (34M) and I (30 transguy) have been together since summer of 2019. Close to that time, I had an IUD inserted. The hormonal effects of this device have been brutal for my mental health, and unfortunately have also impacted my partner due to my mood swings - I’ve recently discovered how many women have had similar experiences and have decided this damn thing HAS to go.
Anyways, our relationship outside of my moody ass, has been excellent. I’ve come from a background of abuse, neglect, and being lied to and never questioned his intentions…until last year.
We joined the family share thing with Apple to split the max iCloud storage cost, as I have multiple devices and a lot of data stored. I’m not sure when we joined this feature but I remember it was maybe September 2020 and I was sitting at home just tapping around in settings (or was it the App Store?) and saw he shared his purchases with me. Being a generally curious individual, I started scrolling through the list and came across two dating apps that had been installed on Oct 16, 2019. (How odd I’m revisiting this all on Oct 16, 2021 - no wonder why I feel like my life is on repeat)
Emotions kicked in. I ended up getting super upset but reached out to a friend for advice and she asked me if we were monogamous, which that was the understanding of the relationship. She ultimately told me to talk with him, which I agreed was the best course of action. When he got home, I asked him if there was anything he needed/wanted to tell me, to give him the opportunity to give me the truth before feeling like I was accusing him of anything. He wasn’t sure what I was talking about, so I gave him a minute and then told him what I stumbled across.
He stated that he would never do something like this, he would never purposely hurt me or cheat etc. He stated he had been cheated on before and couldn’t imagine doing that to someone else, especially someone he loves and cares about such as myself. I told myself I needed to take what he was saying as the truth and be cautious going forward in the event any other red flags appear.
Some time goes by and nothing strange occurred. Our intimacy had declined though, after I started struggling with sex due to hormonal changes from this damn iud - I’m getting this thing out in a month and I cannot tell y’all how relieved I am because it’s changed my body in ways I never expected. My sex drive has been drastically reduced as well as having other issues such as pain - be cautious if you consider an iud, some folks have great experiences while others have issues.
This summer comes around and Apple released their beta iOS 15 program. We both participate in testing the software for both iPhone and iPad OS. I had updated my phone to the beta but not my iPad right off the bat. He updated both and I ended up taking a look at his iPad before deciding to update to it myself. However, while I was in settings I found app usage that looked sus, discovering Kik messenger which wasn’t something he ever told me about (as well as me not seeing that app when I had previously looked at shared purchases). I feel bad for stepping across a line of invading privacy, but I opened the Kik app and found group messages with other gay men in the area - don’t recall anything being sent by the username the account was set up as though.
I also discovered a Facebook account that was only linked to Facebook messenger and not the Facebook app itself (we discovered that it wasn’t linked to his Facebook logins or stored in passwords in settings once I brought the incident up - I wanted to give him privacy even with what I had discovered). That Facebook account was one that I had to block on an older account of mine, LONG BEFORE I met my partner. It was also an account that one of my friend had been talking about harassing him a few weeks prior to this.
I never reached out to any of the people the account messaged, outside of my friend who sadly didn’t have the message thread anymore. My partner was freaked out because it appeared to be a security breach and claimed he didn’t understand how it was on his iPad and not on his iPhone messenger session. We both worked for apple so this was a huge concern to us and he factory reset his devices (to which I’ve been kinda frustrated about because I wanted to dig for information with him BEFORE he did this) as well as changed his Apple ID password to ensure any sessions that were unauthorized were ended. He made sure to use the option to sign out of all other devices.
Note: before all of this, he had been compromised on platforms like Netflix and Spotify, maybe some others. My session on Netflix was interrupted stating “too many people were online” yet he was at work and his only friend who had access at one point was also able to watch at the same time. He thought I was using his Spotify and asked if I was listening to some weird random playlists, I forget what but it was enough for me to bust out laughing and I knew he had been compromised.
Somewhere along this wild chain of events, we discovered a device he didn’t recognize. It may have been this same day during the summer…I honestly think it was and that we both agreed signing out of all other devices after the password change should resolve the issue. But it didn’t. Come August, he let me use his computer where we were working and I was triggered to feel as though he was hiding something from me either in history or emails when he closed everything out and opened a guest or private session that wasn’t even needed as the page I wanted to be on was already on the screen before asking to use his PC.
We talked about this after he was done with a quick meeting, explaining how I used to hide things from my family when I was a teenager and up to no good online (I got busted of course). I asked him to double check his Apple ID for that device we had discovered previously. Sure enough, the damn thing was still there.
Now, this tricked me my first time personally dealing with this issue. I had an old device that was added in on my list but when I ended the service on it, I thought logging out of the device was all I needed to do to end having my data on the device I was no longer using. This is not the case, the device has to be removed from the Apple ID as well. So I brought my experience up and we looked at the iPhones details to see if there was a phone number associated with it. There was!
I searched that number in my contacts, no result, searched it online and no result either. He searched it and found a contact for the device, so I questioned him on who the person was. He told me it was an old roommate who was quite the character, to say the least (my words, not his here). I asked if he ever had the iPhone model it was displaying and he told me no, asked if the two of them had ever dated and he told me no. I even asked if maybe he had ever signed in on his device and he said no and that he wasn’t even sure what model iphone the guy would have. It was an older model iPhone, several generations before what we currently have.
After having another piece of info added to this strange series of events, he removed the device & changed his Apple ID password to be DIFFERENT than the first time he changed it as it was practically the same damn password. Since then, we’ve checked several times since to ensure it wasn’t back on his account. I had told my partner multiple times that his lack of caution with passwords is exactly why it was concerning. We’ve shared passwords (I know I know, it’s not good to do) because we’ve agreed to help keep each other on track with finances because life gets busy. I’ve been very thankful for this move because it’s helped me make sure payments got made when I was at work and received a notice that would have not been able to be responded to until something was already marked late. I had questioned how someone could even be in his account back during the summer as he uses two factor authentication. This device discovery made so much sense. It was a trusted device that could request apples verification codes. I knew two factor COULD be hacked but it’s typically unlikely as hackers go for easier targets, the less time consuming it is for them, the more appealing. So I felt a little relieved…until I didn’t.
Something didn’t sit right with me about this. I tried putting my trust in my partner but my gut also has never misguided me when something was off. Last month, I ended up having a thought about it all randomly and decided to look for a previous post about this guy on social media to confirm whether or not my partner was telling the truth. Sure enough, I found it and confirmed my partner had lied about the fact that they had previously dated.
At this point…I was PISSSSSED. I totally mishandled this but I don’t think I know anyone who would’ve handled it better honestly. He got home from work and I came out of our bedroom and started yelling about why he thought I was stupid and why he thought he could lie to me, why he lied to me etc etc. And I’m pretty certain I may have threatened to leave, I cannot recall 100% on this though. I DO know I told him the only thing I EVER wanted was honesty and that’s why I had given him multiple chances to just tell me what was going on (the first time in 2020, back during the summer this year, and again in August). Lying is something I don’t tolerate or handle very well due to my trust issues. And he KNEW I had trust issues before him…like how the fuck could he do this and think it was okay or that I wouldn’t find out?!
He told me he didn’t want to relive the memories from when the two of them dated due to how shitty his ex was. And I’m understanding of that but like, he still shouldn’t have lied!!! I started telling him that I felt like maybe I had created an environment that he didn’t feel safe in because I didn’t know why he would feel like he couldn’t just tell me “yeah, we dated but I don’t wanna go into details about it” or something similar. Like I would’ve never pressed the issue or dug for more info or anything if he had just handled it differently.
Needless to say, it’s been a very difficult time for me, and for our relationship ever since. Now, I love this man y’all, I really do. In previous relationships, I would’ve ran away by now but I’m trying to figure out how to heal and get through something like this instead of avoiding the issue. At this point, I wasn’t sure how I was going to go forward and just let him know it’s gonna be extremely difficult for me because how many other times has he lied about something? This changed everything. This gave me proof that I had a reason to question everything now.
He allowed me to have his PIN for his iPad but then I discovered his Apple Watch randomly had a PIN added to it between discovering the lie and now - to which I confronted today as well but only after a few more discoveries were made.
Idk why I feel bad about the whole privacy thing for following my gut, I guess because I don’t wanna hide things from him as well? But I ended up looking through notes on his iPad since messages weren’t synced and he had deleted a bunch of apps from the device - it’s a smaller storage size and the storage was filling up, which I’m trying to continue to be understanding of because that just makes sense to do. But listen, back during the summer I asked to see his emails because of the Kik account being tied to his email, but searching the inbox found nothing related to Kik. So I tried looking in deleted messages but he said he deletes his deleted messages. Wtf?
I don’t know ANYONE who does that shit y’all. Whatever. I’m still kinda pissed about that but nothing I can do and I’m still trying to be reasonable with it because I mean, there was a time when we HAD to delete old messages because they wouldn’t delete themselves and storage could become an issue…but that’s not a problem of todays email, at least not with gmail.
ANYWAYS, I found some notes that had random numbers, names, emails etc in them. My notes are like that and half the time, I go back to them and have NO IDEA what I was making a note of it for lmao I found some passwords saved in notes and that’s concerning because the ex had access to this if he still had that device (or whoever currently has/had the device by this point)…but then I found one of my friends usernames AND a photo of the email address that I believe is associated with that random Facebook account (the account seems to have been deleted as of the same time I told my partner in June but what’s weird is, his devices were literally in the process of being restored from backups at that point…UNLESS, he did this on his laptop when I wasn’t looking…idk if I’ll ever know). I immediately reached out to my friend on social media because I had two contacts saved for him. I never heard back, as he doesn’t use social media much anymore. This was on 10/4/2021.
Again, I gave my partner the opportunity to discuss this with me and he acted like he didn’t know anything about any of it. When I pointed out how strange it was that my friends username was stored in a random note that looked like it started with a grocery list, he kept denying knowing anything about it.
The note with my friends username was last edited 5/3/2020. This date will be important later.
Fast forward 10/16/2021 I tried going to bed, but I couldn’t sleep again. Something was eating away at me still. I logged into my instagram to see if my friend had replied to my message yet and he hadn’t! I thought, “Good god dude how long do you avoid social media for” so I resorted to Facebook to contact a mutual. They replied almost instantly! Told me they’d get a message over to our friend to see if he was okay with getting his number to me, then said they may know what this was about. My heart almost stopped.
I said something along the lines of “What? If you know something that I don’t, I need to know.” They responded with something along the lines of how they didn’t wanna get involved but they remember hearing something about weird messages being exchanged and they’d pass along the info to our friend to get us in contact again.
Some time went by. I couldn’t sleep still so I woke my partner up. I think it was like 7/8a by this point. I told him to unlock his phone and let me see it. I sat with him and scrolled through everything, basically looking for any evidence of having contact with my friend or anything sus. I couldn’t find shit, go figure though because I had allowed for time to go by where anything and everything could be deleted/hidden if he wanted to make sure I didn’t see something.
Some more time went by. My friend messaged me with my other friends number. I texted him and he responded, we had some exchange of small talk and then I asked him if the mutual friend told him why I needed to talk to him so urgently.
The exchange relating to this:
Me: There’s a lot to this, and I’m just trying to figure it all out. I never expected to find something that led me to someone I knew but I’m thankful for that because I feel like I’ll finally be able to figure this out
My friend: Okay, sounds good to me. What would you like to know?
Me: Well, idk how to ask it all without feeling like I’m accusing something here lol I guess, has (my partners name) ever messaged you/added you etc since like summer 2019?
My friend: You're good man. To be honest, I don't remember exactly when it was, probably about a year and a half ago, I believe we had matched on tinder and exchanged a few messages. Then when i realized who he was I asked if you two were till together, and if you were in an open relationship. He said you were together and that what you don't know won't hurt you, so I said no I think we could be friends but certainly not anything more.
Me: Is his tinder profile still up?
My friend: And he has followed me on tiktok but we haven't talked or anything since then. I'm not sure about his profile. I deleted my account when I started dating (my friends girlfriends name).
Me: Dangggg idk how to find someone on tinder lmao what’s your TikTok? If you don’t mind me taking a peek and see if there’s another account I don’t know about. Like I mentioned, there’s a LOT to this. I’m not 100% sure if he was the one that talked to you but I’m also not 100% sure he wasn’t. His ex was found under his Apple ID…so he had access to emails, passwords, texts, everything
My friend: (shared screenshot of TikTok profile)
Me: (shared screenshot of first incident, the dating apps discovered) carried on explaining the above details regarding this whole rollercoaster ride (Shared more screenshots of the note, the note with the last edited date on it)
My friend: Wow! That is a lot to take in. So even if his crazy ex was the one I was talking to, I don't understand how or why a note with my username would be on his phone.
Me: found it (sent a photo of the Tinder Plus subscription receipt showing 4/6/2020) Can’t find what device it’s connected to but I didn’t find any app data on his phone that he’s had since 2019
Me: He’s not following you on his TikTok (screenshot of the TikTok following search result of my friends username which returned nothing) Nothing for you 🤷🏻‍♂️
Me: Did you ever follow back on TikTok? You popped up when I searched (the first 4 characters of his username) on his account but not on mine. But I searched you in his following/followers and couldn’t find you (Screenshot x3, one showing the search on his TikTok account finding the profile was one my partner was following, 2 showing the search on my TikTok for the first 4 characters of my friends account not returning the account vs my partners account and returning the search result option for my friends account)
Me: I’m in shock. He’s still persistent that he doesn’t recall talking to you or following but like your story matches what is on his accounts so 🥴😭 Thank you (friends name). Let me know if he contacts you or anything because idk how he’s gonna act and I need to know if he does
Me: (screenshot) It’s weird that this number under your username was my docs express clinic wtf. No tinder is showing up so it’s probs deleted so I’m sol
My friend: That is so strange. No I didn't follow him back. In fact if I knew how to make it so he couldn't be following me, I wouldve done that lol. I will absolutely let you know when/if he does. :) (Screenshot)
Me: Thank you for showing me all of this. We’re going through everything currently still
My friend: No problem at all man. Honestly, I was having conflicting thoughts when the supposed Adam told me what you don't know won't hurt you. On the one hand I wanted to send you all the receipts right then, but at the same time I figured if he knew we were friends and still said those things, then it would only be a matter of time before you found out, if you hadn't already known he was talking to other people anyways. I'm sorry I didn't tell you when it happened though.
Me: If anything like this ever occurs to you again, always always always keep receipts. I would keep receipts even if I didn’t bring it up to someone right away but like this stings bad because like how many people did he talk to that I knew and how many others also didn’t tell me? He’s still trying to say it wasn’t him but I’ve also told him todays the last chance. If I find ANYTHING out after today that he’s lied about, I’m packing my bags and leaving for good.
My friend: I absolutely will. And in the event you find yourself needing a place to stay, you are more than welcome to stay with (friends gf name) and I. ♡
The exchanged carried along some small talk from there and I continued diving down the rabbit hole of looking through records and I had my partner contact apple to see if they were able to find the device that started the subscription for Tinder (they were unable to, and note: apple can ONLY see the device that ORIGINALLY installed an app, if it’s been reinstalled since using the same Apple ID, you’re sol).
Me: Did (my partners name) ever send photos?
My friend: He sent a few, never anything explicit that I can remember. Mostly just his face, some were face with shirtless upperchest.
Me: I don’t understand why he’s still denying this. I don’t know what to say or to do. I had to leave the room and just go take a shower but I’m just standing here and unable to hold back tears Like…I thought I finally found a good one dude
My friend: I really wish I knew what to tell you man. It makes it difficult knowing that he has a crazy ex who had access to his emails and things, but at the same time... How would my username be saved to his phone if it wasn't him I was talking to. And with it being saved to his phone, how and why would he have found me on tiktok, I'm pretty sure he added me on Instagram and Facebook too. If you'd like I can try to go on those apps and find out, but it's been so long and idk if I have my stuff saved but I can try.
Also, since you're just up the road, if you need to just get away, and have somewhere to go, you're more than welcome to come over for a while. I don't work till Monday, and my gf has already said you can come over whenever. ♡
Me: I’m worried about how I might act. I’m trying not to be mad at either of y’all. I’m just…so fucking shocked. I feel fucking stupid. I saw the red flags. I ignored them, telling myself I was broken and needed to heal. Telling myself I need to bury these trust issues before they bury me. And yet I’ve been digging my own grave
My friend: And I totally understand. I'm not 100% sure what it is that you saw bedside what you've shared with me so far, however I can tell you the person I was messaging was very shyly flirting (hence the top less photos) and when I finally caught on and asked about your relationship status I shot that shit down. There's also the part where you've told me things before, it is correct, you do need to heal, but can you do that with this person? Who seems to have all the answers with no explanations. And when there is no answer or explanation it turns to anger or immediate defense without giving you a chance to make sense of the situation? See I didn't want to send you or keep these things, even though we haven't talked in forever, but I knew the last time I checked up on you, you were so happy, or at least that's what you were saying on social media's. And there was no way I could bring myself to ruin that for you. But at the same time, I felt like I needed to, just incase you were clueless and had no idea. Adding a crazy ex into the mix does make it really hard to read. But, that doesn't explain having my username saved to his phone under a note that at first glance would look like a shopping list.
Me: Can you see your TikTok notifications from when he followed you first Like I just don’t get any of these things I’ve found. I get writing down random phone numbers and shit but usernames and leading to someone who’s been talking to a profile on a dating site after finding two dating apps installed while together and OF charges and an iPhone that was unknown and then a lie, then half truths. I just…none of it makes sense. The email related to the messenger Facebook account talking to tons of guys…nothing makes sense And that’s all he says too but like wtf am I supposed to do. I can’t trust
My friend: (sent a screenshot of my partner following on TikTok about 35 weeks ago - that would be around feb 15th 2021)
Me: Ugh I wish you had screenshots because his tinder account was deactivated in like May (Screenshot of the last email warning the tinder account was being deactivated in 7 days - sent on May 11, 2020)
It’s been one hell of a day. It’s 5a 10/17/21 and I’ve been typing this post since I woke up on the couch alone after falling asleep during the middle of a discussion with my partner. He’s currently in bed asleep and while I’m tempted to look through his phone some more, I don’t know if I should. But something still doesn’t add up about this mess.
My friend is right. - why would my partner be following my friend if the ex was the one that made the tinder? - Why would my partner continue to lie when I told him I’m done after this was addressed yesterday if I find anything else out about him lying ?
If it was the crazy ex, the notes would only sync to my partners device if it was enabled on the iPhone we found under his Apple ID.
But like, also, why did my partners TikTok account follow my friends account THIS February?
Before anyone just tells me to leave, think about this happening to you but by someone who’s been the most amazing person you’ve ever been with. My partner stayed by me while I fought for my life when I had sepsis in December 2019. He bathed me, cooked for me, cleaned for me etc after I had top surgery. He’s made sure I was on time for work when I started having sleeping problems. He’s allowed me to try reducing my stress by quitting my job early this year and working more with him to expand my technical skills - teaching me more about networking and electrical. He’s helped work on the things that frustrated me the most, helping me with chores and also taking my advice finally about helping himself because we’ve both fallen into a slump of depression from everything we have going on on top of this.
I’m surprised I’m still here. I always ran away in the past. I never appropriately communicated through issues and resolving them. I don’t want to continue being in the same cycle, regardless of who it’s with. People fuck up, I’ve fucked up in the past. I cheated on someone before, physically not just emotionally like what this seems.
The things I’ve been through with abusive exes is far different than what I’m even experiencing with this man now. The people of my past were 110% malicious and would NOT talk to me about anything and never admitted to ANY lie they told. My partner may not have admitted it until I found the evidence of it, but I’m wondering if there’s even a way I can get it out of him. I asked him if he would come to therapy with me if I do end up staying (because I haven’t given him a straight answer on what I’m doing tbh - I told him to give me one good reason why I should stay and he hasn’t, he’s just stated that nothing he says is gonna matter which has irritated me to no end…attempting to bring this up when he wakes up if I’m still awake and see if we can make any progress with less rampant emotions).
I know my worth and know I don’t deserve to be lied to. And I also know this is gonna be a lot of work if I press forward, not only required by me, but also from him…if anyone has stuck around and had success with a partner admitting their wrongs after the fact, even after a threat of leaving, please share your experience. Any advice on how to protect myself going forward in the event I choose to try the, I guess couples therapy route, let me know.
And any advice on learning how to trust others in general, since there’s no guarantee that staying is gonna work, I still need to figure out a way to work on this to be ready for other relationships of any kind. Otherwise, I’m just gonna be a hermit with 100 cats, and while I love cats, I don’t think being a hermit is very healthy for one’s mental health but neither is being manipulated/lied to/abused.
If you read this all, thank you. I don’t have much energy or concentration these days so long posts exhaust me, writing them and/or reading them. And, hopefully in sharing this experience it can help others in trusting their gut.
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